it’s so weird that men can make endless misogynistic comments and not have to reassure people that they don’t hate women but when women, especially those in the spotlight, talk about things concerning women they feel an overwhelming need to constantly reassure the world that they don’t hate men, that they love men. 

and by weird i mean a cultural norm to demean women and overvalue men. 

(via countdrocula)

How old are you and what are some important lessons you’ve learn in life that you would like to share with others?










25, Be patient and seek to understand before being understood.

23, You’ve yet to reach your final form. Don’t fight growth and change.

26 Don’t judge your success by the success of others

21, you can be a kind soul when people need it without trying to be everyone’s best friend. There’s a difference.

19, that there will be periods of loneliness in your life that are necessary for personal growth  

16,  focus on what’s in front of you instead of what’s behind.

25, it may not make sense now, but it will. trust and believe.

21, Listen.

20, Be yourself. try new things explore yourself. Be open to new experiences.

23, Learn to forgive yourself.

My Dad's response to his white co-workers making fun of his accent

White Co-Worker: That's not how you say it.
My Dad: But you knew what I meant so why do you have to make a big deal out of it.
White Co-Worker: Aww come on man, it's funny, lighten up will yah Nestor?
My Dad: You know I speak 5 languages, right? How many can you speak?
White Co-Worker: Just English
My Dad: Tell me something. What does a cow say?
White Co-Worker: Moo?
My Dad: That's right, the cows in my country say that too. You know why? They can only speak one language *walks away*
White Co-Worker: *sheds white tears*